If you watch enough of the late night infomercials, you’ll start getting convinced that anyone can make money in real estate. That it’s so easy even if you’ve had a frontal lobotomy you can make a fortune in real estate. They make it sound like real estate investing is like using an Easy Bake oven.
Now for the horrid truth. Not everyone can make money in real estate, and real estate isn’t for everybody. Investing, whether in the stock market or real estate can be very stressful, and you have to able to remove yourself emotionally from the investments. Not everyone can do that. In fact, I would be willing to say that most people CAN’T do that!
I can assure you that if you buy a house to rehab, and you’ve allotted $5k for repairs, but by the second day of work you realize you’re going to need at least $10k to rehab it, but you don’t have the $10k, there will be some very powerful emotions involved! Or what if you have a house that you’ve put all your money into, and are trying to rent it out, but after 4 months of it sitting empty, and another payment coming due on it? Can you remove yourself emotionally from it?
Real estate investing is not for everyone. Getting into real estate because you think it’s a quick, easy way to make money is like becoming a pastor because you think you’ll only have to work one day a week. There is a lot more to it than that. Not everyone can be a teacher, not everyone can be a pilot or a surgeon or an investor. I know investors that have been investing for several years, and they still get their head handed to them on a plate sometimes. It’s going to happen. But how will you handle it if you lose greatly on a deal?
Fortunately with the lease option program that we’ve developed, there is almost no risk, but there have still been times where at the end of the day I ended up making nothing or possibly even losing some money on a deal. Or maybe something happened that of course was completely out of my control, but the fingers were still pointed at me. Those are frustrating times when you are trying to do the right thing, and you end up wasting your time and money to help someone.
I’ve developed my program to be as cookie cutter as possible, but it still comes down to the individual. I trained a couple about 5 years ago and they just could NOT get the program working. It wasn’t the program, but them. They just weren’t cut out for it, simply because they lacked confidence. I worked with them and worked with them, but at the end of the day, they couldn’t sell a glass of water to someone in the desert, because they just lacked confidence. There was another couple that when we tried to discuss even the easiest, simplest task of our lease option program, they both looked like deer in headlights, and would ask the same questions, over and over and over. I don’t care what method of investing someone is looking at, it comes down to the individual.
Bottom line, if you think that you should get into real estate because you will make a ton of money with almost no effort, then you may want to stick to the lottery.